It’s Not About Me

Naturally, we as people are inclined to be self-preserving rather than self-sacrificing. Because of this, as we move through life, we quickly get caught up in all the issues and demands that seemingly ambush us each day. This, coupled with the desire many of us have to be successful, can often lead us feeling empty. We become stuck striving for true fulfillment but constantly left wanting more. However, consider for a moment, what if true fulfillment lies in selflessness rather than self-promotion?

A Lesson in Humility from Jesus

In John 13:1-5, we encounter a powerful lesson of humility from Jesus Himself. As the hour of His departure approached, Jesus knew that His time on earth was ending. In this moment, Jesus had every reason to be self-preserving. But instead, He chose to demonstrate the ultimate act of servanthood.

Jesus and His disciples had gathered for their last supper together, however, there was a glaring absence. No one had come forward to wash their feet. Like how we would expect someone to offer us a place to wash our hands before eating. In those days, it was customary for the lowest slave to wash the guests' feet, yet no one had fulfilled this duty. There was no servant in that house to wash the feet of those arriving. Though no one in the room but Jesus could be considered a King; everyone in the room saw such a duty as below them.

Challenging Conventional Notions of Leadership

This simple yet profound act directly challenged both the ancient Jewish notions of leadership and greatness. In a world that glorifies power, status, and self-promotion, Jesus exemplified a different kind of leadership - one rooted in humility and service.

The disciples, like us, were focused on their own agendas and desires. In this instance and many others, the disciples were self-serving. They overlooked the opportunity to serve one another, preferring instead to prioritize their own comfort and status. But Jesus showed them that true greatness lies in selflessness, not selfishness. We today are just like these disciples; but we are called to be more like Jesus.

Throughout his life, Jesus showed us that humility, generosity, and integrity are the keys to true greatness in the kingdom of God. He shattered the world's expectations of leadership by embracing servanthood. He didn't seek recognition or praise; He simply humbly served those around Him. Jesus’ greatest act of leadership was birthed over a bowl.

True Greatness and Fulfillment

The path to greatness and true fulfillment, both in life and in the kingdom of God, isn’t centered around us. It’s focused on serving others and serving God. We were never meant to struggle for status in the kingdom of God or gain a notable position in ministry. By doing that, we completely miss the point.

I’ve seen God use people greatly; but over time, those people begin to lose their humility and become overrun with pride. Quickly their focus shifts from outward to inward. Soon enough, this pride destroys them and their ministry.

Let us follow Jesus' example and embrace the water basin in our own lives. Let us prioritize service over self-promotion, humility over pride, and love over ambition. For true fulfillment comes not from focusing on ourselves, but from pouring out our lives in service to others.

A Challenge to Serve

I challenge all of you to step out of your comfort zones and find a way we could serve those around us. Whether it be a small act of kindness or taking a day to prioritize the needs of others over us. Each one of us has something we can do to serve the people around us. For the act of servanthood can be extended beyond the church walls into the lives of the people we interact with day to day.